"Ipakilala mo naman ako sa kanya, Ang GANDA niya kasi"

This crazy guy almost knelt as he pleads for me to respond to his heed. He really likes to get near to this Maganda. Tsk. Tsk. I refused, by the way.

I really loathe the fact that most guys nowadays are like this. They think its cool to meet a girl who really looks good. "Pare, I met her na. Her name's Anna. Chicks Pre. I should ask her out!" and "Make a move! tapos pakilala mo rin ako"

Don't get me wrong. Girls are happy whenever their beauty is appreciated, but girls don't want guys to just look at the outside features. There is always something beyond the outside appearance and women wants you to see that as well. She would Love you to be interested that she's a bookworm and she'd Love to know that you're also waiting for another J.K. Rowling hit. She would Love you to be interested to hear how she sings, or how she cooks a mean adobo, or how she performs well in her academics. She would Love you to be interested on the things she does. I guess it's nature for women to make themselves look attractive because men are visual, but it doesn't stop there. Don't you know that women are offended whenever you see the beauty alone? It's kind of insulting that you just want to help them with their bags, or have a short conversation just so you can have a closer look or check if there's a flaw.

If you base Love on beauty alone, what would happen if the beauty fades? What would happen when women get older, get wrinkly and flabby? Morbidly, what if the face gets distorted in an accident? Would you still stay? We are aware of "My girlfriend's not hot anymore" and "Losyang na kasi ang asawa ko (and he cheats on her)" that ended relationships. Very sad but true. The one thing you Loved was her physical beauty, and when it faded you have no reason to Love her anymore and you tend to find another. What happened to some guys who were deceived by beauty? Don't let me get started on "Babe, you were so pretty, I never thought you were a guy"

Men, Women appreciates that you appreciate her physical appearance, They appreciate when you tell them "You're beautiful", but what they really want you to appreciate is her heart. For women, It's always what inside that counts. A woman would Love you to Love her for who she is, not for how she looks. Appreciate her beauty and stop. Going beyond that can lead you to lust. Sometimes, you have to cover your eyes to see the genuine things. It's not wrong to approach her, ask for her name, or have a conversation with her as long as you set your motives right. Know her beyond her looks. She would highly appreciate that. According to research, Women outlive men. Do not worry that no one's reserved for you. God made a lot of beautiful women and I'm sure one will end up with you. 

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." --Proverbs 31:30